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Judgement

10/15/2015

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A lot of people hate the Judgement card. I think this is partly because of memories of Christian teachings about the Last Judgment and partly because of projection; we project our practice of judging onto the Judgement card. 

It never struck me as meaning literal judgment. I always thought of it as "being called." It is the last card before the World and all the cards before it lead to, finally, the ability to hear and respond to the call of our spirit, free from all the layers of human stuff that separate us from our own inner divinity. The purpose of the judgment in the Judgement card (yes, I know, the tarot card name has an "e" in it, but it's complicated. If you are interested in this, go HERE) is to bring what was dead to life. But mostly when we feel judged, we do not feel enlivened. When we judge others, it is generally not to inspire them. There is no life giving in this sort of judgment.


This morning I listened to a Good Life Project Riff (short podcasts that briefly explore a subject) called What if You Were Defined by Your Worst Moment? You can listen to it HERE. I suggest you do, because it is really good and under six minutes. 

I've seen too many relationships, beautiful, loving, nurturing relationships or reputations thrown away or destroyed, because one person made a mistake. As Jonathon says in the podcast, a lifetime of loving, kind acts can be erased by one moment of reaction, stress, anger, or other human emotion. He posits and I agree, that we do better (and are making a more accurate judgment) to look at the long haul, the cumulative goodness as the norm and the one thing, the one mistake, as an anomaly and part of being human. And you must know, I'm talking about mistakes and not talking about things like assault and such. Nor am I talking about reasonable discernment. 

He turns the question on us: how would our characters be described if someone used only our worst moment? How accurate would it be? Not very, I bet. So why are we so quick to think that one mistake means we need to say "Aha! They've shown their true colors and now I will never trust them again!" 

We, or at least I, do this to myself as well. One mistake and I think of myself as some lame loser who has never had one bit of value. Or maybe something less extreme, but still, pretty hateful and unrealistic.

I don't know why we do this. Maybe because it makes life easier in some ways. We like things simple and black and white. Rules help make things easier and just cutting a person off is a lot easier than working through emotional messes. 

Maybe next time you find yourself judging yourself or someone else, first measure that thought against the idea of judgment being a way to give life rather than crush life. 

Image: Judgement from Llewellyn's Classic Tarot, by Barbara Moore and Eugene Smith

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Yi Xiang link
10/19/2015 03:21:32 am

I remember reading a book that talks about how flawed our judgments are. It mentions a simple question: there is a Steve who is shy and withdrawn, helpful but not interested in people, and he likes order and organization, is he more likely to be a farmer or a librarian?

Most people will jump to conclusion that he is a librarian because his personality resembles one, but statically speaking he's more likely to be a farmer.

Maybe we think in stereotypes, and when someone makes a mistake we immediately link his actions to the stereotype of a fool, instead of taking his other actions into consideration.

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